Weddings are one thing. But the juicy wedding anecdotes that get passed around from guests in real life is another. From fussy bridezillas to nightmarish decor, hilarious invitations, accidents, "what da heck was dat" moments, and even full-blown fights… Some people live for the nuptial gossip.
And the chances are they belong to this quirky online community that deliberately targets some shame-worthy weddings. Captioned "let’s shame those weddings," the subreddit r/weddingshaming is the online home for roasting wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding parties, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors, and more. “You name it, we shame it!” states the community’s description.
Created in 2018, the controversial subreddit now has 151k members who love digging through anything wedding-related. So let’s take a look at what they dug up and shamed down below.
#1 Imma Use This One Sometime
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#2 Photographer Shaming A Guest
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#3 You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride
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The world of wedding shaming offers real-life drama combined with sassiness and a fair share of roasting, all in the comfort of a virtual environment.Groups like the “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming” Facebook group, which has 80.6k members, and the r/weddingshaming subreddit with 153k members have become somewhat of a phenomenon in the past 2 years. It turns out there’s something universally irresistible about ripping apart someone’s supposed best day of their lives.
Luna, the moderator from Australia at “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming,” told Wired that “There’s something about weddings, whether you’re invited or not, that just brings out the worst in people.” She suggested that this is precisely what gives the group a feel similar to reality TV shows.
This online shaming trend became a hit back in August 2018 when a post from a group shamed a bride for asking her guests to pay about $1,500 towards her wedding. The story went viral after it was shared by model and social media star Chrissy Teigen.
#4 Mother Of Bride Wearing Bridal Gown!
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#5 I’m All For Using An Uber Sure But Come On
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#6 This Is Terrible
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But many people are not so positive about this new trend, claiming that “beneath those silly nuptial stories lies an online playground of hate.” Going after others may indeed look cruel, but there’s nothing new about discussing other people's personal decisions, how they act in relationships, and how they celebrate their big day.
There’s a thirst for gossip and drama which is human up to a point, but the psychologist Emma Kenny told the BBC that the wedding-shaming trend is a breeding ground for meanness.
“You have people who might be feeling down about their own life and join in because venting makes them feel less alone. Ultimately, having somewhere to direct their hostility and connect with others who have similar resentments creates a breeding ground for meanness.” And thus, such groups should be viewed with caution.
#7 What A Hilarious Prank!
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#8 4 Weddings And A Cat Party
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#9 Bridezilla Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical
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#10 We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
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#11 Everyone In The Comments Is Calling Her Out. How Can You Think This Is A Good Idea?
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#12 Found On Twitter
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#13 Real Life Soap Opera
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#14 Bride Cancels Vendor For Supporting Black Lives Matter
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#15 It Can’t Just Be The Bride’s Big Day, You Know
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#16 Just Hope There Isn’t A Third...
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#17 Wedding Guest Shaming
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#18 Gahhh This Is Bad
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#19 Mother Of The Groom And The Groom On Their Special Day
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#20 Yikes Yikes Yikes
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#21 Do Not Talk To The Bride At All
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#22 This Girl Is An Icon. She Really Spilled Some Tea!
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#23 “Please Shoot People So We Can Have Our Wedding Illegally”
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#24 I’m All For A Nudist Wedding But The Kid?
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#25 She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride
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#26 Bride Freaks Out After Finding Her Own Post On Reddit
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#27 Karen Thinks Artists Are Ripping Her Off For Charging $1000 For A Live Painting Of Her Wedding Ceremony. Expects To Get A Literal Picasso For That Price
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#28 A New Wedding Theme For You To Consider....
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#29 $250 Min Gift To Attend
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#30 Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time
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