Back in the old days, when men were the primary earners and women were less likely to be able to pay their own way, it became accepted that the man would pick up the bill on dates.
However, these days, where a woman is just as able to pay her own way as a man, the practice seems a bit dated, if not obsolete. In some cultures – Scandinavian countries for example – a man assuming that he needs to take care of business on a first date can come across as insulting and more than a little condescending.
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In the U.S. though, the expectation of the man covering the bill still survives to some extent, leading to some awkward situations.
This story didn’t have to be that way. It was all agreed upfront that the pair would ‘Go Dutch,’ a very sensible and honest way of dealing with things. However, the sense and honesty soon evaporated from the situation, as it became clear that one side of the party just wasn’t playing ball.
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I guess this woman learned her lesson the hard way! Incidentally, I always understood ‘Going Dutch’ as paying for one’s own share, not 50/50 as described here.
What does it mean to you? Is Going Dutch a good idea for a first date? Is going to a fancy restaurant like this a good idea for a first date? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
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